Feeling kinda down right now/today. My wife just told me that she’s freaking about money so she wants to not exchange gifts for Christmas this year. This sucks. I don’t like it one bit. I like giving her gifts (even though things are still strained in the marriage). I want a healthier marriage/relationship but I feel at my wits end. I don’t know what to do. Bringing this to an end is a big decision and has implications not just for me but for our 4 year old daughter. I’m mostly concerned with how it would impact on Amy. Though, it would suck big time to not be able to see her everyday as I do now. That just brings tears to my eyes. I just don’t know sometimes... I feel so strongly about working to save the marriage, no matter what, but I’m not getting that same feeling from the other side. What to do, what to do...